What Every Japanese Learner Should Know About Daily Etiquette
Mastering in Japanese includes more than just language. Cultural etiquette is deeply embedded in speech, gestures, and daily habits. These points will help you blend in respectfully:
Don’t Point—Gesture Politely
In Germany, people draw clear boundaries between public and private life.
- Pointing directly at people or things is considered rude in Japan. Instead, gesture softly with your whole hand, or indicate direction with your palm facing upward. It shows subtlety and manners.
Always Wait for the Other Person to Finish
- Japanese conversations value harmony. Interrupting—even to agree—can feel impolite. Wait for the speaker to finish completely before responding. Use subtle cues like nodding to show you’re listening.
Use Honorifics (さん、さま、くん、ちゃん) Correctly
- “San” is the safest and most respectful choice. “Sama” is formal, “kun” is casual (usually male juniors), and “chan” is affectionate. Misusing them can sound either too familiar or too distant.
Slippers and Tatami Rules
- When you enter a home or traditional space, remove your shoes. Indoors, use provided slippers—but never walk on tatami mats with them. Restrooms often have separate “toilet slippers.” Respect the clean zones.
Gift-Giving Etiquette
- When visiting someone’s home or returning from travel, it’s customary to bring a small gift. Present it with both hands and modestly downplay its value, e.g., “つまらないものですが…” (It’s just something small…).
Understanding etiquette shows respect for the culture—and earns quiet admiration from locals.